Anna and her husband, with whom she has 2 sons, were both tired of their sex life. But even though their sex life did not function, they were still attached and fond of each other. None of them could ever imagine a divorce.
To begin with, Anna created a profile on a dating site – listed as single. She got a lot of approaches but after a while exchanging e-mails, she had to admit that she was already ”taken” and was only looking for some fun. One day, Anna got in touch with Ben, with whom she later began an affair. When Anna explained him that she was married, he replied; “I am too, that is no obstacle.”
For 5 years Anna and Ben met several times in hotel rooms. For Anna it was not only a question about sex and physical satisfaction. “There has been a lot of tenderness and warmth in this relationship (with Ben red.). This kind of sexuality opens for a special intimacy, and I feel like a more loving person now, “ Anna said to Discreet Affairs.
To Anna, an affair was not a question of whether or not she loved her husband. It was about the lack of passion and closeness in her relationship, which made her look for satisfaction elsewhere.
Just like you can love all of your children at the same time, and have several best friends, you can also have unique and passionate relationships with several different men. Anna is just one out of thousands of people who have been caught up in a trivial relationship and are seeking a lover who can indeed satisfy the basic needs of passion, and intimacy.